joking
word · lemma: joke
Definition
Saying or doing something for fun, not to be serious. It is often used to show that a comment was meant humorously and should not be taken literally.
Usage & Nuances
Common in spoken English in patterns like 'I’m joking', 'Are you joking?', and 'Just joking'. 'Joking' softens surprising, rude, or exaggerated comments, but it can also sound defensive if used after hurting someone. Do not confuse it with 'kidding'—they are very similar, though 'kidding' is often slightly more casual in American English.
Example Sentences
I’m joking. It’s not true.
basic
He was joking about the test.
basic
She smiled so I knew she was joking.
natural
Relax, I was joking—I’m not actually quitting.
natural
Are you joking, or do you mean it?
basic
He says rude things and then claims he’s joking.
natural