casper
word
Definition
To end a romantic relationship or stop communicating with someone in a way that's less sudden than 'ghosting'—by gradually becoming unresponsive or distant.
Usage & Nuances
'Casper' is a recent slang term, mainly in online dating, less harsh than 'ghost' (suddenly cut all contact). Used informally. Typical in phrases like 'to casper someone'. May be confused with the cartoon ghost character; context clarifies the slang meaning.
Example Sentences
He didn't ghost her, but he started to casper after their third date.
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It's better to be honest than to casper someone.
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Honestly, I've been caspering him for weeks—I just don't know how to end things.
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My friend hates being caspered—she'd rather someone just say it's over.
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If you feel like you're being caspered, it's okay to ask for clarity.
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She realized he was starting to casper when his replies got shorter and slower.
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