selfish

word

/ˈsɛɫfɪʃ/
SEL-fish
/sˈɛlfɪʃ/
SEL-fish

Definition

Caring mainly about yourself and your own needs, without thinking enough about other people and how your actions affect them.

Usage & Nuances

Usually negative and commonly used for behavior, decisions, or attitudes: 'a selfish person', 'selfish behavior', 'It was selfish of him'. Stronger and more moral than 'self-centered' in many contexts. Use 'selfish with' for not wanting to share, as in 'selfish with his time'.

Example Sentences

I know you're tired, but it feels selfish to cancel at the last minute when everyone is already on their way.

natural

It is selfish to eat all the cake and leave none for others.

basic

He made a selfish choice and kept the money for himself.

basic

Don't be selfish—let your sister play too.

basic

She isn't usually selfish with her time, so I knew something was wrong when she said no.

natural

Was it selfish of me to want one weekend completely to myself?

natural