Touch a nerve Meaning in English
expression
Definition
To say or do something that makes someone feel emotional, upset, or uncomfortable, often because it reminds them of something sensitive.
Usage & Nuances
Informal and often used about accidentally upsetting someone. Commonly used with 'seem to', 'really', or 'definitely': 'seemed to touch a nerve', 'really touched a nerve'. Often followed by a reaction, e.g., visible emotion or defensiveness. Not literal—does not involve physical touch.
Example Sentences
Her comment about his job touched a nerve.
basic
I think I touched a nerve when I mentioned her ex-boyfriend.
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His reaction showed that I touched a nerve.
basic
Wow, that question really touched a nerve—did you see her face?
natural
Sometimes honest feedback can touch a nerve, even if you mean well.
natural
Sorry, I didn't mean to touch a nerve with that joke.
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