controlling

word · lemma: control

/kənˈtɹoʊɫɪŋ/
kuhn-TROH-ling
/kəntɹˈəʊlɪŋ/
kuhn-TROH-ling

Definition

Someone who is "controlling" tries to influence or direct what others do, often too much. It can also describe behavior meant to manage or take charge of a situation.

Usage & Nuances

Often describes people who try to manage others' choices or actions. Usually has a negative tone, implying someone is overbearing or does not let others decide. Used both for relationships ('a controlling partner') and situations ('controlling behavior').

Example Sentences

My boss is very controlling at work.

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She has controlling parents who decide everything for her.

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Being too controlling can harm a friendship.

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He gets really controlling when things don't go his way.

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I don't like her controlling attitude in group projects.

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My sister can be a bit controlling, but she means well.

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