Standoffish Meaning in English
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Definition
Someone who is standoffish seems unfriendly or distant, and does not want to talk or become involved with other people.
Usage & Nuances
Mostly used for people acting cool or aloof, not openly rude. Neutral to mildly negative. Common with verbs like 'seem', 'act', or 'be'. Do not confuse with 'hostile' (which suggests active dislike) or 'cold' (which can be harsher).
Example Sentences
He seems standoffish at parties.
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She can be a little standoffish with strangers.
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I thought he was standoffish, but he’s just shy.
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People sometimes think I’m standoffish, but I just like to keep to myself.
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Don’t take it personally if she seems standoffish—she needs some time to open up.
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He comes off as standoffish at first, but he’s actually very friendly once you get to know him.
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