Bend out of shape Meaning in English
expression
Definition
To twist or distort something so it is no longer in its original shape, or (idiomatically) to become very upset or angry about something, often something minor.
Usage & Nuances
The literal sense is about physical objects. The idiom is informal and means getting upset (sometimes unnecessarily). Don't confuse it with 'bend over backwards' (make an effort). Typical in negative advice: 'Don’t get bent out of shape.'
Example Sentences
Be careful not to bend out of shape the metal rod.
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He got all bent out of shape over losing his keys.
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Try not to get bent out of shape about the small stuff.
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My phone case got totally bent out of shape in my bag.
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Don’t get bent out of shape—it’s not a big deal.
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She really bent out of shape when her plans got canceled last minute.
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