"pleaser" in Chinese (Simplified)

• 讨好的人
• 取悦别人的人

Definition

“Pleaser”指的是为了让别人开心而努力取悦他人的人，通常会迎合别人的要求或避免冲突。

Usage Notes (Chinese (Simplified))

通常是非正式用语，经常和“people pleaser（讨好型人格）”搭配。暗指为了得到别人的认可而牺牲自己，往往不被认为是优点。

Examples

My sister is a real pleaser and always helps everyone.

我妹妹是个真正的**讨好的人**，总是帮助大家。

He became a pleaser to avoid fights with his friends.

他变成了**讨好的人**，以避免和朋友争吵。

A pleaser often says 'yes' even when they want to say 'no'.

**讨好的人**经常即使想说“不”也会说“是”。

Don't be such a pleaser—it's okay to put yourself first sometimes.

别总当个**讨好的人**—有时候也要考虑自己。

Being a pleaser can be exhausting if you never say what you really feel.

如果一直做个**讨好的人**，从不表达真实想法，会让人很累。

Sarah used to be a pleaser, but now she stands up for herself more often.

Sarah以前是个**讨好的人**，但现在更懂得为自己说话了。