"you asked for it" in Chinese (Simplified)
你自找的
Definition
用于表达某人因自己的行为而承担发生在自己身上的坏事的责任。
Usage Notes (Chinese (Simplified))
非正式表达，常用于有人不听劝告后，带有揶揄或幽默语气。不如“活该”那么严厉。
Examples
I told you not to touch the stove, but you asked for it.
我叫你别碰炉子，可是**你自找的**。
It rains and you forget your umbrella? Well, you asked for it.
下雨你还忘带伞？好吧，**你自找的**。
He kept teasing the dog and got bitten—you asked for it.
他一直惹狗，被咬了——**你自找的**。
If you stay up all night watching movies, don't complain you're tired—you asked for it.
你整晚熬夜看电影，别抱怨累——**你自找的**。
You joined the spicy food challenge, so you asked for it if your mouth's on fire now!
你参加了辣味挑战，现在嘴巴着火了，可是**你自找的**！
Don’t look at me for help now—you asked for it when you ignored my advice.
现在别找我帮忙——你当初不听我建议，就是**你自找的**。