"have it out with" in Chinese (Simplified)

• 与...摊牌
• 和...彻底谈开

Definition

与某人坦率地谈一个问题或分歧，通常是为了解决紧张或冲突。

Usage Notes (Chinese (Simplified))

非正式的习语，多用于需要与人摊牌、处理紧张关系或矛盾时。通常带有直接对话甚至对峙的意味，经常用于“和某人 have it out”。日常闲聊中不用。

Examples

I need to have it out with my friend about what happened.

我需要和我的朋友**摊牌**谈谈发生了什么。

She finally decided to have it out with her boss.

她终于决定要和老板**摊牌**。

If you’re upset, you should have it out with him.

如果你不高兴，你应该和他**摊牌**。

We argued for weeks, and finally I had to just have it out with her face to face.

我们争吵了好几个星期，最后我不得不和她**当面摊牌**。

He won’t listen until you have it out with him.

他不会听的，直到你和他**摊牌谈一谈**。

They’re avoiding each other instead of just having it out and moving on.

他们彼此回避，不肯**摊牌谈清楚**然后继续前进。