"kill with kindness" in Chinese (Simplified)

• 以善意摧毁

Definition

对某人极其友善，尤其是对不友好的人，以至于让对方感到惊讶、困惑甚至恼怒。

Usage Notes (Chinese (Simplified))

这是一个非正式的习惯表达，指用极度友好的态度回应甚至消解别人的敌意。不是字面意义上的“杀”，而是以善良来化解冷漠。

Examples

If someone is rude to you, try to kill with kindness instead of getting angry.

如果有人对你无礼，你可以选择**以善意摧毁**，而不是生气。

My friend always tries to kill with kindness in difficult situations.

我朋友在困难的时候总是试图**以善意摧毁**。

You can sometimes solve problems if you kill with kindness.

有时候，如果你**以善意摧毁**，问题就能解决。

She didn’t argue back—she just decided to kill with kindness and offered him a drink.

她没有反驳，而是选择**以善意摧毁**，递给他一杯饮料。

Whenever her coworker tries to criticize her, she just kills with kindness and smiles warmly.

每当同事批评她时，她只是**以善意摧毁**，温柔地微笑。

You don’t need to fight back—sometimes it’s better to just kill with kindness and move on.

你不需要反击，有时候**以善意摧毁**然后继续前行更好。